Wednesday, April 14, 2010

One Week



One week later, and the family is figuring itself out. It's strange how, almost overnight, our little, small for her age toddler seems huge - and our baby seems impossibly small despite the fact that she is thriving. At over eight pounds, Lillian is doing her best to become the next "Baracuda Baby" in the Lovett-Hammel family.

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Playtime for Morgen and Lillian

One of the things that must worry just about every second-time parent is how the two siblings will get along, and in particular, how the older child will react to his/her world being forever altered. Well, the jury is still out on those issues for us, but so far, things seem to be going pretty well. Morgen seems genuinely interested in Lillian and tries her best to be "gentle" around her. Still, there are moments when the potential for difficulties becomes apparent.
Here's the progression of one recent playtime episode between our toddler and newborn.

1. Baby toy gets set up for the newborn's use. Toddler immediately decides this is the best toy ever and commandeers it.



2. An attempt is made to come to an amicable arrangement to share the toy.

3. A higher authority (Mom) intervenes and removes the newborn from the well-meaning, but somewhat overenthusiastic attempts of the toddler to get baby sister to play.


Friday, April 9, 2010

Learning about Lillian







Lillian Dawn Hammel
April 7, 2010 9:20 pm
7 lbs, 15 oz

We're still learning about our newest family member...really love what we know so far.

Monday, April 5, 2010

Easter Monday


Easter Sunday found Morgen refusing to wear the dress we picked out for her, and insisting on wearing pants and a tee-shirt to church (where she quickly lost interest in the music and headed straight to the nursery). Throwing caution to the wind, we invited some friends over for an Easter potluck dinner, and she ran and jumped and played with our guests, until it was time to say goodnight. This morning she woke up and asked about them - were they still here? Are there any more eggs? And instead of making the usual request to stay in her jammies all day, she then demanded to wear a new tee-shirt dress her friends brought from Spain just for her. Even more astounding, she followed that up with "I want two pony tails, Daddy," sat quietly while these were put in (by Mommy, since Daddy is still leery of anything involving more than a comb), and still had both in full swing when she left to go to school this morning. She seemed a little sad that the Easter Bunny had gone home, but perked up a bit when Gavin told her that he would come back next year.

(She's also decided that hard boiled eggs are much, much better to eat after they've been coloured brightly and hidden in your house by the Easter Bunny. Most of last night's potluck dinner was ignored in favour of "the blue one!" or "the pink one!" Exceptions included the cornchips, cupcakes and fruit...)

(Morgen kept shaking the eggs up over her head when she found them - I think she was testing to see if they were really eggs to eat, or toy egg shakers. Each time she found one, she was happier - it made me wish we'd hidden more than four.)

(Still no newborn, but a pile of promising eggs on the table. Note the special "Leona the Lion" egg in honour of Morgen's favourite stuffed animal.)


(Morgen decorating her Easter bucket about a week ago. This picture was taken at the beginning of what has become a daily ritual - the demand for stickers, and the attempt to smother her little bunnies with whatever other stickers are available. After we ran out of Easter stickers, I pulled out the leftover valentine stickers. Even though we tell her now that the stickers are "all gone," she still asks for more every day, pointing to her bucket and saying "I want to decorate it!")

Friday, March 19, 2010

Don't hold your breath




Nope, there is no news. Just some photos of Morgen going about her only-child life over the last two weeks. Morgen has been busy making art with friends, learning to be nice to the cat (who is beginning to accept her as one of his pack), learning that baby sister's toys are going to be fun to play with, and learning that a pair of sunglasses makes an old outfit seem brand new.

And me? I've been progressively less productive and increasingly prone to long naps. And yesterday the doctor suggested that I could try jumping up and down if I was feeling impatient. I think he was kidding, but since he didn't follow the suggestion up with anything that sounded more reasonable, I have some doubts...