Sunday, January 11, 2009

Land of Milk and Mommy


Gavin calls Minnesota the land of milk and honey, but lately, I feel like we've left that place and landed in the land of milk and mommy. Morgen has been a demanding little girl lately - after eating nearly no solid foods during her trip to Minnesota, she has decided that there is nothing like mother's milk. All the previously loved favourites like carrots, sweet potato, and squash are simply detested bites reluctantly swallowed and frankly, well, resented. We can only get her to eat veggies and fruits by tricking her into thinking she's about to get oatmeal and rice cereal. This cereal, and only this cereal, is the one thing besides breastmilk that she seems to enjoy eating. Even prunes, once something she couldn't get enough of, is on the gross list. We just keep soldiering on, making sure that we give each attempt at mealtime at least thirty minutes, ignoring the betrayed looks that result from pushing veggies or fruit into her little birdie mouth, and trying to stay firm. We're learning though that Morgen is one stubborn and smart little cookie. She flattens her lips shut, frowns, whines, and then gives us the ultimate sign. She turns her head and sucks her thumb, and says "La!" This syllable means "milk," and has mean that since she was just a week or so old. 
Needless to say that the increased nighttime breastfeeding and wakefulness that result from her solid food semi-strike is a bit of a challenge for Mommy. Or, to put it in the first person...it's a challenge for me! Me, me, me! I've been eating all of our treats and snacking pretty much constantly to keep up with it all. This isn't as much fun as you might think, but I'm getting through it. And hopefully, Morgen will come around. Lately she's just been attatched to me at the breast, though, no matter how hard we try to put her off or show her how much fun mealtimes at the table can be.
So, it was with some trepidation that I left Morgen alone with her daddy and a bottle of formula this afternoon. Three whole hours later, thanks to the distractions of a bookstore, a grocery store, a diaper store, and a good friend, I returned home to discover that Morgen....was sleeping. The child who refuses to sleep without nursing was sound asleep. So, we're on to you, missy! And, now I feel reasonably prepared to start attending a course at the university once a week. I'm looking forward to easing back into some semblance of a balanced life.
In other news, it appears that Grendel no longer fears Morgen. He's now just in open competition with her, no more lurking, skulking or sulking. It's an all out war for Gavin's lap now. Either that, or Grendel has decided to take up reading. Poor, poor, kitty. 

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Ukrainian Christmas!

Well, the holidays are over, but we haven't run out of holiday pictures yet. Here are a few more of Morgen meeting various relations and "opening" presents in MN. 


And here are a couple from Wellesley Christmas. Enjoy!


Friday, January 2, 2009

Happy New Year

 
Another eventful holiday. We had a great trip to Owatonna (Minnesota), with lots of grandma, grandpa, and uncle time, and several opportunities to introduce Morgen to some of her American contemporaries. I am in Wellesley now, and can't get to those pictures at the moment, but I promise to post a few soon.

For now, here is a glimpse of Lovett New Year's Eve. Gavin tried to shut down the paparazzi, but they still managed to get a few journalistic-style images...he is in New York at the moment, staying in a luxury hotel and enjoying the American Historical Association's latest conference. So I have no one telling me not to post these pictures of him. Note that he is indeed stealing Morgen's Christmas bear and playing with it despite Morgen's outstretched arm. The season brings out the inner child in each of us, doesn't it? Good times.  

 

Sunday, December 21, 2008

Lazy Sundays

  
Let the record show that Saturday, December 20, Morgen discovered that her toes taste just about as good as her fingers. Let the record also show that it is very difficult to capture this discovery on camera. You'll have to come to my house if you'd like to see my efforts, since they were all taken during Morgen's post bath baby massage - her new favourite thing. If you do come over, perhaps Morgen will oblige you and show you herself. This shot captures the relief we all feel after spending a very lazy Sunday at home. Waffles, baths, and naps all around. It's such a good life.

Saturday, December 20, 2008

The Best Laid Plans of Mice and Men


Sometimes it just doesn't pay to get out of bed in the morning. At least that's what pretty much the entire Lovett/Hammel family unit was feeling at the end of the day yesterday. We were supposed to catch a flight yesterday afternoon from Toronto to Minneapolis so that Morgen could spend her first Christmas with her Minnesota grandpa and grandma. Unfortunately, Mother Nature had other plans. 

The day started out like any other travel day for a family with a small infant. We spent the morning double checking our bags, adding a few more diapers, and stuffing Morgen with as much oatmeal and rice cereal as she could hold. After checking our flight status online, we bundled ourselves and the little one up, grabbed our bags and headed out the door. The snow was beginning to fall. We walked to the subway, and took the subway to the bus. By this point, the snow was getting serious, and traffic had slowed to a crawl. The bus crept up Highway 427 at about 30 km/h. About 40 minutes later we reached the airport. 

We immediately checked our flight status on one of the nearby information screens. The flight was listed as on time, and we were relieved. We checked in at the Northwest desk, received our boarding passes and proceeded to the passport control area. The glass roof of Terminal 3 was beginning to fill up with drifting snow that formed an oddly beautiful stratigraphy overhead. We passed through passport control, watched our checked baggage disappear on the conveyor belt and headed to the security checkpoint, where we learned one of the advantages of traveling with a young child when the security agent waved us into the "priority" line. We went through the whole cumbersome security process, removing shoes as well as any insignificant piece of metal that we might have on our person and passing through the little security doorway into the airport's inner sanctum. We put our shoes and coats back on, our wallets back in our pockets, etc. The wind howled. Or at least that is what I imagine must have happened outside, for at that instant, I looked up and there it was in bright red flashing letters: "AnnulĂ©". It took me a second to realize what that meant. It dawned on me a split second before the screen shifted back to English: "Cancelled". Jessica and I looked at each other, sighed (there may have been a few other choice words uttered as well), and walked back through the security doorway to the sound of alarms and a cascade of red warning lights.  

We went back to the glass-ceilinged reception area, where the snow was now threatening to blot out daylight completely. We asked at the Northwest counter what we should do now. The ever-so-helpful attendant told us that there was nothing she could do for us. We needed to call the customer service line ourselves to rebook our flight for another day. We could then pick up our bags at a nearby carousel and head home. As the snow continued to swirl, we spent the next hour alternating between trying (and failing) to get through to Northwest Customer Service, checking the baggage carousel, and keeping Morgen entertained/fed. Finally Jessica got through to an actual person on the phone and rescheduled our trip for Monday. No bags had appeared, so we hauled our increasingly tired baby to the airport Swiss Chalet, where we ate lunch. After paying our bill, we returned to the baggage carousel. Still no bags. The snow redoubled its pace. Jessica went in search of an explanation and returned with a Northwest representative, who eventually succeeded in having our bags sent up. 

Bags once again in tow, we took the elevator down to the arrivals level, where we could catch the bus back to the subway. Upon reaching the lower level, Jessica and I looked out the window to our left. Through the driving snow, we could just make out the bright red and white of a TTC bus idling at the bus platform. It was approximately 150m away. Jessica, who had the baby strapped in front of her, told me to run and ask the bus driver to wait. After some hesitation, I ran, but it was too late. Covered in snow, I reached the road just as the bus doors were closing and the engine shifted into gear. I gestured to the bus driver to stop, but he threw up his arms and gave the international symbol for, "I would stop, but there's no room on the bus anyways." And he was right. The bus was completely packed. So Jessica, Morgen and I spent the next 45 minutes waiting in the glass bus shelter, an island of relative calm
 amidst the dancing flakes, as more and more people crowded into it. Moisture from our collective breath began to condense and freeze on the glass, forming intricate webs of frost. Eventually, the bus came, and Jessica and I discovered another advantage of traveling with a small infant, as Jessica used our child to assure us a place on the quickly-filling bus. 

The bus crept back down the 427 as the snow continued to fall. We took the subway back to our home station, and, disappointed to find that our local bus, which only runs every 30 minutes in good weather, was nowhere to be found, we resigned ourselves to our fate and began to walk the block and a half back to our apartment. Unfortunately, by this point the snow had become so deep that it was no longer possible to make use of the wheels on our suitcases. We would have to carry all three of them. Since Jessica still had Morgen strapped to her, I became the pack mule for the two heaviest suitcases. That still left Jessica, whose back was already aching from carrying the baby and a carry-on backpack filled with baby paraphernalia, to manage the other one. Fortunately, a good samaritan, a woman who lives up the road from us a little, offered to help. She carried Jessica's bag, as I struggled behind with the others, whose weight seemed to increase with each snow-filled step. Eventually, of course, we reached our apartment door, said thanks and goodbye to the good samaritan, and promptly collapsed on our couch. For a second, until we realized that it was time for Morgen's dinner.