Morgen was treated to a visit to the Royal Ontario Museum this week, and no, not by her grandparents or her mommy and daddy. By her cousins! There aren't enough opportunities for family to spend time together these days - we are separated by countries and by busy schedules. And let's face it - some people like it that way. Just because we're related doesn't mean that we always get along. My cousin and I always have gotten along - not so my brother and I however. Big Bro and I spent many an afternoon jostling for control of the TV remote, and for various other things that don't really matter anymore. When we were younger, it was important to us that people should know who liked olives and who didn't. We had different hobbies. We had and have different ways of handling lack of sleep, blustering winds, and close quarters. I suppose some people who see lots of their family all the time would say there are more than enough opportunities for family gatherings. But not me - I think that, when it comes down to it, conflict and resolution just make family life more interesting, and I would love to see my family - all of my family - more often. I'm glad that my cousins Jeff and Jackie drove up to see us, and I suspect that Eric and I would have had lots to talk about with Zach and Jaden if we could have met them when we were 5 and 3 ourselves....
As it is, Jeff, Jackie, Zach, Jaden, Morgen and myself were all amused for one afternoon, by our common love...of dinosaurs! And digging for bones! And bat caves! (Or, all but the youngest of us were amused. Morgen liked the bat cave but had a snooze when we reached the dinosaurs.)
I hope that Morgen will have lots of future opportunities to play with her cousins "Z" and "J". It was such a treat for her to see them and their parents.